4 Things To Think About Before Your First Child

Are you thinking about having your first child? It’s important to be aware that this is a huge decision and there are lots of factors that you should consider before committing to this possibility. Let’s explore a few. 

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Challenges

First, you might want to think about the challenges that you could have when you are trying for your first child. When pregnancies are in the media, it can feel almost like it’s a given, but in reality, this isn’t the case. There are lots of reasons why you might struggle to conceive including genetic issues. If you have tried to conceive for several years, then it could be worth thinking about an option such as IVF. This is the ideal route for anyone who can not conceive naturally. 

Space

Next, you should think about whether you have the right amount of space for another child. If you live in quite a small house, you might want to think about investing in a new property. Or, you could consider an extension or a conversion. An extension is a great option because it will add value to your property. At the same time, you will be able to make sure that your child has more space. Be aware that this is worth doing even if you already have a spare room for their bedroom as you can create a fantastic play area. 

Money 

Do consider that having a child is always going to cost you money. Indeed, some reports suggest that a child will cost approximately 250,000 over a lifetime. There’s a lot of other things that you could spend this on which you might prefer. Again, it all depends on the type of lifestyle you want. The good news is that there are lots of ways that you can remain frugal when you have children. For instance, you might want to think about purchasing second hand items. This is always going to be far more cost effective. 

Lifestyle 

Finally, you need to think about the lifestyle that you want. There are lots of different options when it comes to the type of way you want to live your life. For instance, you might be interested in traveling. Having children doesn’t make travelling impossible, but it does make it more expensive and this in turn means it’s trickier. You might also need to wait a few years until you can travel with your children, or leave them at home. Remember, you don’t have to take the kids everywhere. You can still have adult only holidays but you probably need to save for some family adventures too.

We hope this helps you understand some of the key elements that you should think about before you start to commit to the idea of having your first child. Remember, a new baby is always going to be a massive decision and it depends on a lot of different things. Ultimately, you need to ensure that this is the right choice for you and your partner.