It’s very easy for parental or self-help blogs and books to imply the world will be fixed if only you follow a set routine and process. But of course, life is often very messy. This is something we learn as we get older if our parents appropriately shielded us from some of the chaos of life, but sometimes, children learn it early. It’s not always an easy lesson to cope with.   Pexels – CC0 License     Understanding when to tell your children about the tougher aspects of life can be a hard decision to make. Sometimes, that decision is made for you, such as when you lose a…