If you are planning a wedding, then first of all let me say congratulations, and second of all, may I suggest that you sit down and take a deep breath? Planning the big day is one of the most exciting things you will ever do for yourself, but if we’re honest, it is also one of the most potentially stressful, right? Especially when you want to make sure you get everything just right and throw an elegant soiree, and not some disastrous day that will be remembered for all of the wrong reasons. But, you know what? Planning an elegant wedding can actually be pretty simple if you pare it…